Bang On

The last few years have been eye-opening. And as much as I sometimes cringe at this site, it has been the source of so much of my evolution. For nearly four decades, I have been contorting and conforming myself to fit in — mimicking and adapting in order to be “normal.” Even surrounded by friends … Continue reading Bang On

Standards of Care (meet them or I will be single until I kick the fucking bucket, so help me God)

I’m fine to go through the rest of my life single. And I’ll get some cats to prove it, so don’t test me. I have a life I like and it suits me to do whateverthefuck I want, when I want. But pairing up is often what happens in life and while I dislike the … Continue reading Standards of Care (meet them or I will be single until I kick the fucking bucket, so help me God)

I can’t fully explain it, but I’m going to try.

I have certain… quirks. They cause untold amounts of grief because they often appear to others as though I don’t care or I’m not interested in their lives, so I’m working to better explain (and understand) myself. As I’m fairly extroverted, when these idiosyncrasies pop up, they are rather noticeable. Autism, for me, includes a … Continue reading I can’t fully explain it, but I’m going to try.